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If you are studying or practicing the law of attraction and manifestation, and you have been told that you have to fix yourself by reprogramming your subconscious mind or clearing some mental and emotional blocks, then please stop right now, because you are not broken. You do not need to be fixed.
I’m going to explain to you exactly why.
In order to illustrate why you are not broken and you do not need fixed, I would like to use the analogy or the example of someone learning how to plant and grow roses. Planting and growing a rose is a skill. It’s a skill that you can learn. It’s a skill you can practice. It’s a skill you can get better at. Manifesting is the exact same. It is a skill. It’s a skill you can be taught. It’s a skill you can learn. It’s a skill you can practice. It’s a skill you can get better at. Now let’s say you want to grow a garden full of roses.
You go out and you get yourself a teacher or a coach, someone who knows a lot about gardening and growing roses in particular, and they give you a lot of detailed instructions. They tell you exactly what to do.
Now, if you don’t follow their advice and you don’t get any roses, well, unfortunately, that’s on you because there was an expert there. They gave you instruction, and you chose not to follow them.
But if they tell you exactly what to do and you do it, you would expect to get a garden full of roses. That would be great. If that happens, you have a fabulous teacher, a fabulous coach, and fabulous information. Stick with it. Keep learning what they can teach you and keep developing those skills.
However, if you’re following their instructions for growing these roses and after the first season you maybe get one little rose or none at all, and you keep following their advice and the next season you get one little rose or none at all. And then the next season get one little rose and none at all. Then the problem probably isn’t with you, because you’re doing everything they’ve told you to do exactly like they told you to do it.
If this is the case, the problem is probably with the instructions you’ve been given.
If this was actually happening with growing roses, it would be pretty self-evident. You’d go through the first season. You wouldn’t get many roses and you’d start saying, “I don’t think what you’re teaching me is working,” and you’d probably go and find another teacher or another coach or another book and try and apply that information and make it work.
Unfortunately, in the world of law of attraction, it’s really, really easy for the teacher or coach to get off the hook for responsibility for your results. Very few law of attraction teachers and coaches take responsibility for the students results. There are too many outs for them. It’s too easy to get off that hook.
It’s too easy to say, “Well, did you have a negative thought or feel a negative emotion?”
“Well, of course I did.”
“Oh, well then no wonder you’re not getting results. You’re having negative thoughts, or negative emotions.”
Or even worse yet is saying, “Wow, there must be some sort of subconscious programming you absorbed when you were a child that’s preventing what I teach you from working. Therefore, you have to go down this unknowable rabbit hole, where there’s nothing tangible. There’s nothing concrete. There’s no real answers for anything and spend a few years exploring down there and see if you can clear these subconscious blocks that are obviously preventing what I am teaching you from working.”
I know this because not only was I a student who spent years down the rabbit hole trying to fix myself, I was also a law of attraction coach, who, before he was taught better, more powerful, more effective information, used to teach this to people.
Now, let’s go back to the analogy of learning how to grow roses, or any other skill that you ever wanted to learn. If there’s any skill you wanted to learn and a teacher and coach was giving you advice and instructions, and you were doing exactly what they told you to do and it wasn’t working, and they turned around and said to you, “Well, it must be your subconscious programming.” What would you say?
If you were learning how to play baseball and someone was teaching you how to play baseball better and you were practicing what they said and it wasn’t working, you wouldn’t accept the answer that it was your subconscious preventing their coaching from working.
It would be the same with growing roses, the same with writing a book, and it’s the same with manifesting.
Now, the reason that it’s so easy for law of attraction coaches and teachers to get off the hook is because anyone who’s studying the law attraction and manifestation knows that you are the creator of your own reality.
It therefore follows that if you’re not getting what you want, then you are creating that situation, and there is a lot of truth to that. But these are skills you can easily learn. There are easy techniques you can learn, practice and develop, and a good law of attraction and manifestation coach and teacher can sit you down and analyze your technique and give you proper instruction, so that you make progress and you get better, and better, and better, at it.
That’s what should be happening.
If you have that kind of a coach, then stick with them forever, because you’ve got one of the few good ones. But if they’re just saying, “Hey, it’s got to be your subconscious. There’s nothing really I can do about it. Here are some exercises to clear your subconscious and hopefully one day they work.” Well, that’s a total lack of accountability on the part of the teacher and coach.
It’s their job, their role, to help you improve, not throw you down a rabbit hole where you can be lost forever, blaming yourself for their lack of skill, and thinking it’s your fault that you’re not progressing.
If they’re a good teacher and coach, they should be able to grab you by the hand, pull you out of that hole and help you walk forward.
If you’ve been told any of this, please do not do what I did. I spent many years, a lot of time, and a lot of money, trying to fix myself. I tried to reprogram myself through affirmations, hypnosis, ho’oponopono, subliminal reprogramming, binaural beats, you name it. If it’s out there, I spent a ton of money on it and I tried it and I really, honestly, got little to no improvement.
Until finally, one day I was taught something completely different.
What I was taught has changed my life and the lives of thousands of other people with no subliminal reprogramming, and no clearing of mental and emotional blocks whatsoever.
If you are down in that rabbit hole, please find us. We want to teach you these things. We’ll teach them to you for free. Find us on our Facebook group, the Power Manifesting Inner Circle.
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